✿✿✿Argument✿✿✿

Do you think argument will really cos a relationship to the end?

Sometimes argument may happen, when someone too care for you too.

Such as, Mom said: “Son, please dun speed on the road.” Son said: “Yes I know lar. Don’t talk so much, I know what I m doing”. This type of argument, do u think, they din love each other? Actually not, but the son, just dun willing to listen n follow as wat is best for him. And at the moment, he din know, he hurt his mom feeling too.

Some argument may really piss us off, but if we manage to handle it maturely, some of the argument, actually is just a spark for our relationship. Where you can know more about each other during the fight. Communication among couple is very important. Communication is important, but communication thru the heart, where, word-by-word is from bottom of our heart is more important, no lying, no discrimination but words that we feel it is important to let each other to know about it.

I din denied that, human do argue over some small matter. If we could manage to find a starting point to start an argument, it is very high possibility we could manage to find the ending point of the argument too.

As an example, a couple was arguing about attitude problem, where the gal din like certain attitude of her bf, most of the time, she will express what she feel at tht moment, and her bf juz listen, n remember it for quite sometimes, but unfortunately, he do it again. There are many high possibility that her bf do it again, may be he din really wanna follow as wat she had suggested but he doesn’t express his feel to her, or her bf din remember what had been told, as a gf, she should tell him about it again n again, cos we need to know, this might be his habit, habits din change in a few days, it needs time. Human need months or years to change their habits, chances is important to them. But the main point is, when the gf or bf feels it is worth it, she/ him will be willing to wait and give time to each other, and appreciate each other from time to time.

Couple should appreciate each other!!! And never take each other for granted, this is wat I had learn from my pass relationship. Caring each other from the bottom of ur heart, will gv the opportunity to ur relationship to go further. I found out, there is some couple, they like to keep their thought in their mind, n hoping their partner will understand that, when their partner had miss the point that she/he think their partner should know about it, than most of them will say: “Cos u din love me, tht’s y, u din understand what I 1”. How bout, we take it in another way, when u re hungry, n u din tell other ppl tht u re hungry, do ppl know u re hungry?? Except there is some signal from ur stomach, which tell other, u re hungry. Rite? It is same as our feeling too. If u din tell other bout ur feel, ppl might misunderstood u, n it might start an argument on it.

✿It is only my point of view. It din bring any discrimination or prejudice to certain ppl.✿