11种值得交的男友
♥第一种，他懂得尊重你
他对你的爱比要求多，他对自己有主见，对你则不会太有主见。他尊重你作出的各种人生选择，鼓励你发展自己专长。现代好男人的一条重要标准是，尊重所有的女性，包括仅有一面之缘的人。
♥第二种，他的追求很有诚意
他不属于你十分喜欢的异性类型，但是他追你追得很有诚意，而且你喜欢的类型，交往再多都是失败的例子。他们有你前任男友的优点，但也没有你前任男友的缺点，而且他有的优点，很多人都没有。
♥第三种，他对你嘘寒问暖
关爱体贴 他们已经很熟悉，虽然没有了热恋的心跳感觉，但它确实比任何人都关心你，在你苦恼的事，他永远站在你这边，耐心倾听你到苦水；他记得你提过的朋友名字；你扣可是她轻轻递上香茶......这些都无声地传达他真心喜欢你的信息。
♥第四种，你的家人朋友欣赏他
长辈们经风历雨阅人无数，眼睛自然比你毒。你对他很挑剔，但他却很能够赢得你朋友，家人的欣赏。他懂得让每个人心情舒畅，懂得给人安全感。从性格上说，他不是一个非常易变的人，不会让人觉得很难把握和相处。
♥第五种， 他提很多对你有益处的要求
他对你要求很多，但是都很合情合理，而且这些要求对你有好无坏。这样的男友是真心爱护你的。
♥第六种， 他胸襟开阔，宽容忍让
两人发生争执，通常是他最先让步。他懂得如何表达自己，并耐心听你说话，如果你是对的，他能够承认错误；即使你不对，他也愿意原谅你。有话可以好好讲，不会动不动就拉下脸来，送你一脸的表情暴力。也不会为一点小事发脾气或赌气，自虐虐人。
♥第七种，他喜欢小动物，善待你的宠物
通常这样的人都有一颗爱心。你可以从他对待宠物的方式了解他的待人接物。对动物有爱心的男人，也一定会照顾好自己的家人和伴侣。而一个会在路上踢打流浪猫狗的男人，都有暴虐的天性。
♥第八种，他有自己的爱好，有运动的习惯
有某种运动爱好的男子，较容易找到情绪的出口，不会没事找事的折磨你，和一个心中有热情的男人在一起时，日子就会充满乐趣。一个能在生活中找到自己爱好的那人一定会给人生机勃勃的感觉。
♥第九种， 他对感情无怨无悔
一个男人一辈子注定会有多少次恋爱，他在不断的实践中获得经验让自己完善起来。“专一”的定义并非是他只能一生爱一人，而是每爱一个人的时候他都一心一意。如果他曾经有过刻骨铭心的感情经历，并为此真心付出过，那么至少可以证明他是个深情，敢于承诺的男人。一个愿意为感情破裂分担部分责任的男人。
♥第十种， 向他倾诉是安全的
他能开诚布公地与你沟通，他懂得倾听，知道什么时候该说话，什么时候该闭嘴。你不会害怕对他表达，当你和他分享自己的感受与思想时，能觉得安全。良好沟通的基础是信任，在他面前，你确信不会因为表达内心深层想法而遭受到嘲笑或伤害。这就叫安全感。
♥第十一种， 不会因为朋友而忽略你
他有正常的社交圈，有彼此信赖的好朋友，也重视他们，但他不会为了朋友而把你晾在一边。他能够独立思考和行动，而非唯朋友是从。并且，不需要你耳提面命，他就能清楚掌握女朋友与异性朋友的分界。
１０种值得交的男友，他懂得尊重你， 他的追求很有诚意， 他对你嘘寒问暖， 你的家人朋友欣赏他，他提很多对你有益处的要求， 他胸襟开阔，宽容忍让， 他喜欢小动物，善待你的宠物 ， 他有自己的爱好，有运动的习惯， 他对感情无怨无悔， 向他倾诉是安全的 ， 不会因为朋友而忽略你, 这样的男人。。。你能遇见吗？ 没有一位男友是十全十美的。。。可是他们优点，也要慢慢的了解才懂的。。。有些事，没有经历过是不会明白那种感觉。可是。。。希望你们能找到一些你们觉得值得的男友，才对他好。。。我好像找到了。。。因为至少他能做到9／11， 我被他感动。。。再而且也要谢谢我的前男友， 没受过苦是不懂甜的感觉。。。被疼爱，被当宝贝的感觉真的比。。。默默为男友付出的感觉好狠多。。。因为被爱才去爱。。。真的才能幸福
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if i say agree is cheating ppl, if a bf can do tat all, tat mean this is not a bf, is god... all ppl, plz tell me , if a bf can do this, will they argue? then tell me which couple wont argue? tat mean all bf also tak boleh pakai? plz, this owner, take down this message be4 it make all gal starting to hate boy fren, say them cant do this do tat, but who can do this all... guys, come on, u ask urself, we can try our best, but do us really can do tat?
A bf tht dunno how 2 respect u. A good bf?
A bf tht tackle u with motive. A good bf?
A bf tht hardly care for u. A good bf?
A bf tht not being welcome from ur family member n fren. A good bf?
A bf tht always let u b, as wat u 1, although u re doing something wrong. A good bf?
A bf tht always argue with u. A good bf?
A bf tht din really like a pet, show he is not a loving guy. A good bf?
A bf tht dun hv any hobbies, it show, his life is empty. A good bf?
A bf tht always play around with relationship. A good bf?
A bf tht canot b trusted. A good bf?
A bf tht always feel fren is more important thn gf. A good bf?
Thn if all above, is wrong, thn y do guy need a good gf for?
A gf tat dunno how to respect u. A goof gf?
A bf tat u misunderstanding by u, suffering, u thought he is a guy tat motive, it's god?
A bf tat do many things for family, but they dun like, bf willing to change, but gal say too late, it's a gd bf?
A BF stopping her to do sumthings tat not gd, call didnt respect her, cause wat she will do, sure she think is gd for her...
A bf tat dun wan argue, but u argue with her, a good bf?
A bf tat dun like a pet, if alergic? also not a gd bf?
A gd bf hobbies not must be sport, can be work, y must be sport?
A gd bf wont play relationship if the gal didnt hurt them
A bf cant be trusted, because u didnt trust them, right?
A bf tat feel frenz more imoprtant, cause frenz is forever, but do lover is forever? maybe just today, tomorrow, next year? How u know?
If a gf is good, y cant make the bf changed. If the gf is worth to make a bf change, y should gal didnt give chance to them?
If a chance is given, but not being appreciate, thn wasn't it is waste..where a gal need to cry for him 1 more time.
If the bf know, what he need to change, thn it will b another story. The prob is, some guy din know, what they had gone wrong, although even being told by the gal. N sometimes, a promise is given to his gf, but it is juz a empty promise...thn, y do a gal still need to trust a guy like this. If he can really show, wat he had change.
A good gf, also need to get a bf tht worth for her to spend time with him. If a bf tht din worth a single sen to her life, do u think , she will still care n love u?
When ppl father's say tat : i will buy u a helicopter when u get no1 at exam.
then after the exam : daddy, i get no1, where is my helicopter?
after one month : son, sorry to tell u, i forgot to buy u a helicopter, i buy for u next week.
after ten years : son, here is ur helicopter...
so this story tell us wat? do the father didnt love u, he keep a empty promise, but at least at last he brought, but it's too late? No, bacause he still keep the promise, he still love the children... but clidren will say : Father, i hate u, u keep empty promise.
But do the father say tat when he going to buy the helicopter? He didnt wrong, but do u think he is wrong?
A couple tht dun understand each other, is a couple?
A couple tht nv really communicate,how far this relationship can go?
A couple without trust, wat will they do 4 each other?
A couple tht always blame each other, wat prob they can solve?
Who knows, when ur love 1 will leave u, y those couple din appreciate every single second to let their love 1 to feel their love?
Do the father gv him a empty promise? Yes. Cos he should know, himself could not afford to do tht, pls dun promise his son, he will get him 1. where it will spoil a childhood memory, y dun he say, i will buy u a helicopter toys? since tht , he could afford to get tht for his son.
Memory is very important for every1, if can, we should try our best to make it a sweet memory, not trying to run away by telling, do u think i m a god, where everything can b nice n beauty...cos, u nv try.
If a dad tht promise his son, i will buy u a helicopter, but he din manage to get 1 for his son, y dun he nv think of telling his son, "Son, we re not tht rich, but i will get u a toy helicopter first, N i m sorry tht i din manage to get u 1 real helicopter" where this father, admit with his mistake...
u haven answer my question, do the father did wrong? i just wan a answer
i mean is a helicopter toy, cause of he is bz, so he forget. But the father tell him: son, i will buy, but later. But when is the later? no ppl will know, but at least he brought. We cant say the son n father is worng, cause no ppl wrong.Promise is promise, he can keep it, cause he brought, but do the son know tat wat father did everyday is just for their family? The son just know he owe him a helicopter.. until the father died, he had their own family, then only he know, but the days is to late to forgive his father, so do u wan to regret now because of ur bf promise u, but he "haven" done, but not didnt done? Sometimes guy did the things tat he promise, but ppl didnt c it, then claim tat he didnt make the promise, then wat should the guy do? Teach me...
But anyhow, the dad is wrong, with his attitude, he is making a very big mistake for his son, by keeping his promise. How can u aspect a son to know wat a dad is doing, except, his dad brings his son to work. Show him, how hard his dad working to earn 4 a living. A son tht without knowing wat is it, how can u 1 him to understand.
A gf tht hoping a bf to change, yes, it needs times. But at least, the bf should show his true heart to her. Know her, from deep of her heart. N plus let d gal enter to d bf world. A bf tht hardly open his heart for his gf, do u thinks, she can feel his real heart? Bf always think, gf is juz 4 a temporarily only, where gf will leave bf in future, thn y need to get a gf for the first place. Gf should being treat with tender n passion, Love her with his real heart, treat her parents n fren with respect. With her family n fren blessing, do u think, the relationship will end tht fast? A love without trust is not love. A love without a proper communication is not a love.
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